NTK (Need To Know):
If you have been in a relationship for a number of years, you probably have had a ” the passion just isn’t what it used to be” moment. You’re not alone. As Eric Anderson, a professor of masculinity, sexuality, and sport at the University of Winchester explains, “The most predictable thing about a relationship is that, the longer it progresses, the quality and the frequency of sex between the couple will fade. This is because we get used to and bored of the same body.”
What I get from Anderson is that humans don’t fare well with monotony. That’s probably the reason behind AshleyMadison.com, a dating website for married people who are looking to have affairs. Depending on where you stand on morals, you may either think this is the worst thing in the world or it’s a brilliant concept.
Anderson and his fellow scientists did a research on AshleyMadison.com and looked into 100 straight, married, women between the ages of 25 and 45 to see why it is that women cheat. What they found was that 67 percent of the women just want some passion (and sex) back in their lives again. They want to be wined and dined, and made to feel like they’re appreciated and attractive again.
But why not just get a divorce? Well, what the study also found is that of those 100 women, ZERO of them wanted to get a divorced. In fact, as Anderson noted, “they were adamant that they were not looking for a new husband. Many even stated their overt love for their husbands, painting them in a positive light.”
Remember guys, just because you love your partner, it doesn’t mean you’re giving them everything they need. Women want passion! If you want to be “in it to win it,” you need to step up your game.
And if this article is making you a little bit suspicious that your spouse maybe cheating on you, here are some signs to look for: